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"Oh he is amazing," "oh she is amazing," "oh this child is so clever," "oh this monkey so mischievous."

None of the above.

The reality is amazing, not the ego laying claim to the body and the actions. That is a fake.

Reality is all these forms at once. Lay no claim to what you believe to be your own qualities or failures, they are not yours as 'you' are nothing more than a case of mistaken identity.